We all heard this as kids during a time when boys were too yound to like girls and girls were too young to like boys, "First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage." If it were that easy this world would be a much better place. Unfortunately love may never enter the picture and neither will marriage but that doesn't stop the baby carriage.
In a perfect world, the decision to have children would be more carefully planned out. But even in an imperfect world there are people that love each other and have children and stay in the relationship or marriage for years to come. Well right now these are the people that I am speaking to. These are some of the most misguided when it comes to the subject of child support because they think that this system will never affect them. I have spoken to many males and all of the ones in relationships don't really want to speak on the issue because they are in a relationship and they say "It's all good, I take care of my kids so I know if anything does happen she won't try and get me for child support." Well guess what, you need to think again. There is nothing like the heart of a man or woman scorned. All it takes is for one of you to show up with your new boyfriend or girlfriend, or announce there is a new baby coming, or for one of the kids to like the new boy or girlfriend. How easy it is now for that parent to seek out justice through the Division of Child Support Enforcement.
Get educated. The Division of Child Support Enforcement is a system filled with injustice. It tears families apart and ruins childrens lives. Parents come together for the sake of your children. If your relationship or marriage is blessed enough to stand the test of time then praise God, and Hallelujah, but if it doesn't, well the more you know, of course the better off your children will be in the end. Don't put the law in control of the relationships that you as parents have with your children. You make think because the court has ordered a monthly or weekly payment, you win, but you have actually lost more than you could ever imagine. I know that monetary support is must when it comes to taking care of a child or children, I also know that there is a better route than D.C.S.E.
God Bless
